邮箱链接成功 却无法接受

http://jia.meitian.me/testmail.php
testmail.php 按照设置也全部搞定了
data/log/201011_SMTP.php  出现的是这样的

<?PHP exit;?>
2010-11-07 16:30:07
116.22.3.31
1
/jia/do.php?ac=sendmail&rand=1289118607
(stmp.qq.com:25) CONNECT - Unable to connect to the SMTP server
<?PHP exit;?>
2010-11-07 16:32:42
116.22.3.31
0
/jia/do.php?ac=sendmail&rand=1289118762
(stmp.qq.com:25) CONNECT - Unable to connect to the SMTP server
<?PHP exit;?>
2010-11-07 16:38:00
222.87.188.166
21
/jia/do.php?ac=sendmail&rand=1289119078
(stmp.qq.com:25) CONNECT - Unable to connect to the SMTP server
<?PHP exit;?>
2010-11-07 16:43:59
114.135.108.140
23
/jia/do.php?ac=sendmail&rand=1289119432
(stmp.qq.com:25) CONNECT - Unable to connect to the SMTP server
<?PHP exit;?>
2010-11-07 16:46:50
116.22.3.31
1
/jia/do.php?ac=sendmail&rand=1289119610
(stmp.foxmail.com:25) CONNECT - Unable to connect to the SMTP server
<?PHP exit;?>
2010-11-07 17:57:18
116.22.3.31
1
/do.php?ac=sendmail&rand=1289123837
(stmp.qq.com:25) CONNECT - Unable to connect to the SMTP server
<?PHP exit;?>
2010-11-07 17:57:52
116.22.3.31
1
/do.php?ac=sendmail&rand=1289123870
(stmp.qq.com:25) CONNECT - Unable to connect to the SMTP server
<?PHP exit;?>
2010-11-07 18:04:01
116.22.3.31
0
/do.php?ac=sendmail&rand=1289124241
(stmp.qq.com:25) CONNECT - Unable to connect to the SMTP server
<?PHP exit;?>
2010-11-07 18:09:43
116.22.3.31
24
/do.php?ac=sendmail&rand=1289124583
(stmp.qq.com:25) CONNECT - Unable to connect to the SMTP server
<?PHP exit;?>
2010-11-07 18:11:01
116.22.3.31
1
/do.php?ac=sendmail&rand=1289124660
(stmp.qq.com:25) CONNECT - Unable to connect to the SMTP server
<?PHP exit;?>
2010-11-07 18:19:27
116.22.3.31
1
/do.php?ac=sendmail&rand=1289125167
(stmp.sina.com:25) CONNECT - Unable to connect to the SMTP server
<?PHP exit;?>
2010-11-07 18:23:52
116.22.3.31
1
/do.php?ac=sendmail&rand=1289125431
(smtp.qq.com:25) MAIL FROM - 503 Error: need EHLO and AUTH first !
<?PHP exit;?>
2010-11-07 18:25:10
116.22.3.31
1
/do.php?ac=sendmail&rand=1289125509
(smtp.qq.com:25) MAIL FROM - 503 Error: need EHLO and AUTH first !
<?PHP exit;?>
2010-11-07 18:30:53
116.22.3.31
1
/do.php?ac=sendmail&rand=1289125853
(smtp.qq.com:25) MAIL FROM - 503 Error: need EHLO and AUTH first !



我应该怎么办呢？

大家用
http://jia.meitian.me/testmail.php  可以看的到我的是链接成功的

但是 邀请 那里 无论怎么弄 都无法 搞定别人接收邮件啊